Posted in Complex Human Mind, Life, Life's Like That, Things to Ponder

Resilience In Testing Times And Your Value System

#ResilienceInTestingTimes
#TrickyTestingTimes
#YourValues #YourGoals #YourWays #Resilience #Patience #QuickWins
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Each one develops certain values, value system from childhood. The basis for those will be your personality, your family, your culture, your education and your passion for life.
 
However, the most interesting thing is adhering to the value system of yours throughout your life. Yes, we are the sole owners our value system, and one may say how is it tough adhering to one’s own value system?
 
Let me throw some light on this topic with some real time examples. Value system is perceived even in the minute but significant things of one’s life.
 
# Say, your value system says it is not right to cheat in examinations by copying. You adhere to it. You may not top the class. However, the test to your value system comes, when a person who doesn’t know anything, tops the class or gets a seat in desired course of study, whereas you are stuck because you were sincere to your value system.
 
# Say, your value system says it is not right to crave for money but to crave for good quality of work we do in life. However, the test to your value system comes, when the duffer of your class does well than you and belittles you by flaunting his/her material richness.
 
# Say, your value system says it is one beautiful life and one needs to work well achieve something, make ones own mark as an individual, do something good, useful to the society. However, the test to your value system comes when a lazy relaxed person sitting at home belittles you and your methods by saying “You are just slogging for no reason, see me I am enjoying the luxuries”.
 
# Say, your value system says it’s the inner beauty, character of a person matter a lot in comparison to external beauty. However, the test to your value system comes when the people who focus on external beauty do better in career and personal life.
 
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Yes, of course there will be testing times where you question the validity of your value system. However, if we move a millimetre from your value system we feel suffocated, we feel something is wrong. That’s the POWER of our value system. Though it is tough sometimes, we don’t realise that our values are what make us strong, make us powerful. We shouldn’t change or perturb from our value system seeing others.
Because our value system is our map of life and it is unique to our life 🙂
 
Do share your thoughts on this 🙂
 
Have a beautiful Wednesday ahead.
 
Loads of Love,
Prasanna Rayaprolu
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Posted in Complex Human Mind, Life's Like That

Celebrating 10 years of my blogging and my blog

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Exactly 10 years back , those were the days,when I was into a start up company working as a Instructional Designer/Technical Writer/Market Research Associate basically to summarize when i was working as a Jill of all trades.That was the time when I was a Moderator for a Debate Forum online where everyday I used to moderate, participate in several international,national and versatile topics .The fights, debates in those forums where that strong that even Arnab or Rajdeep or Barkha would have learnt some tips from our forum.Oh,yeah..all these moderation, debates were done in my pen name. I earned good amount of friends, enemies by that time online too.

Just then,this concept of blogging started in the lovely and lively mysterious world of internet. Me being a knowledge hungry,highly expressive and radically experimental person didn’t want to stop exploring the world of blogging too .When i said, to my family, friends and colleagues “I am going to start my own blog”, first question was “What the hell is a blog”, when i said to them, it is some kind of online personal diary ,personal website, 90 percent of them laughed at me by saying “Oh Really!! Prasanna!! What do you thing of yourself? Who is going to read it? Do you think you are some celebrity? What are you going to write in it? Do you think you have enough knowledge that you want to share that knowledge to the world too?”

Honestly , i didnt have answers to all or atleast some of those questions . However, I wanted to start the blog. I started it with zero support, zero encouragement. I still remember, the day i received my first comment from unknown person, it was a post related to vedic mathematics and renowned person in that field commented on my post. That was so exciting for me, i received a positive comment for my one of the first posts that too from a renowned person in that field.

Slowly, just to improve my habit of writing i continued writing. I wrote blogs on all the random topics i am interested in. After some months, I added link of my blog in my resume too along with other social networking sites. I got to befriend several new online friends, initially i used to feel, people are tricking me or lying when they used to introduce themselves and write to me that they like my blog posts and they are fans of my blogs. I used to accept their comments /mails only after exhaustive research about them. Slowly, such mails and messages increased and i too felt more confident about myself, my writing. This blog of mine became a primary tool in personal branding. Unknowingly , it helped me a lot in my career and life. Interviewers started reading my blogs before final rounds of my interviews. And even now, it is such a pleasure when the Country heads or the Vice Presidents of the Organizations I want to work with talk to me about my blog and the posts in it.

On the other side, the comments/mails i receive from outsiders are more about how my blog posts inspire them and how they come back to my blog to feel good, feel motivated when they want to feel better. This is a huge achievement for me. All i did was, blog what i felt, about my failures, my tiny successes and my feelings in these journeys, and all i want to do through my blog is help others also find their best version while i am also trying to become my better version.

I started my blog on October 23rd 2007 and by this October 23rd 2017 it is 10 years and I feel good about it. What i strongly believe is ” When you believe strongly in an idea, JUST DO IT, don’t wait for approval of entire world to start the things which you believe strongly”. I started writing my first book this year and will be publishing it by end of 2018.

Warm Regards,

Prasanna Rayaprolu

Posted in Complex Human Mind, Life, Life's Like That

Real World Is Still Beautiful

#RealWorld #Tolerence #Gratitude #Religion #Politics

Happy Thoughts :)

I was having chat with one of my dear friend and suddenly as a part of our discussion this topic of “Is this social media, news channels making us more depressing and making us not practice gratitude at all? ”

“Trump threw paper napkins on the people waiting for aid”
“Read these 10 reasons on why Narendra Modi’s Demonetisation is a big flop”
“Once again Rahul Gandhi insulted BJP”
“Yogi Adityanath cares for cows more than humans”
“100 people dead in so and so city”
“Pakistan did it once again to India !!!!! “

Goddamn!! News are becoming sick, Overrated and manipulated. And above all due to more channels, more papers the authenticity of news is getting killed, every stupid data is not news.And subsequently more and more stupid memes are generated. Making us more bitter and bitter unknowingly. Yes, we have the option to shut down TV, disconnect the network router. You might be wondering what exactly is my ranting is about, what exactly is my drama about.

Real World is really beautiful. It isn’t bad as badly depicted in the media, people of different nations, different cultures, different religions really coexist very well. It is not that alarming.

Religion: Yes, love your religion. Know more about your religion, Share about your religion but don’t degrade other religions. It’s like you like you are proud of your mother, you tell to the World about beauty of your mother but for that you need not degrade other peoples mothers. Yeah, I am humble Telugu Brahmin, however my great friends are very good Muslim’s, Christians.We do discuss religion but we don’t kill each other or scold each other.

Politics: Each one is entitled to have their political views, we are inclined to one or the other party but just that other person has different views we need not develop grudges with them and make mockery of him.Yes, I am inclined towards one party, it doesn’t mean, I degrade people who support other parties or it doesn’t mean I support mistakes of the party is support.

In, Helsinki my favourite restaurant is in Mannerheimintie. Its an amazing restaurant where they serve Indian food, for a person like me, if I don’t eat Indian food for 2 consecutive days, I end up feeling depressed. And this restaurant comes to my rescue all the times. Hospitality of the owner and staff is simply amazing. Only after my first visit I realised it is not a restaurant owned by an Indian, it’s actually owned by a Pakistani. After all, India and Pakistan are siblings from same subcontinent.

Driving the point home… Real world is still really beautiful, don’t get carried away by strong and biased opinions in the news and different media.

Do share your thoughts.

Have a great day ahead.
Loads of Love,
Prasanna Rayaprolu

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The Beauty Of A Woman

The Beauty Of A Woman

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The beauty of a woman Is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure that she carries, Or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman Is reflected in her soul.

It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows,
And the beauty of a woman
With passing years only grows.

Author: Audrey Hepburn

 

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Loads of Love,

Prasanna Rayaprolu

Posted in Complex Human Mind, Life, Life's Like That, Some stuff for Inspiration, Things to Ponder

Karma, Product Backlog, Sprint backlog and the Program called Journey of a Soul:

Karma, Product Backlog, Sprint backlog and the Program called Journey of a Soul:

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I have very weird ways of working, when I have to work I work not really bothering about the time, food and sleep, and with zero disturbance from external elements ..so me generating ideas or strategies only in working hours is rare. In simple words, I am like Archimedes, I don’t know when my Eureka moments come.

With this kind of tasks, the ways of refreshing from work for me are a post on facebook or on my blog, walk in my office campus listening to instrumental music and photographing, Talk with like minded people on completely different topics.

One such evening at work, when I thought I am done with an outline of a concept, my senior colleague Anjali  asked me for a Chai. I don’t like missing an opportunity to have Chai with her, she is a busy bee and the best thing I like with her is spiritual and philosophical conversations.

On that day, as a part of random conversations, we started talking about Karma. We both being the Project Managers that too who work on Programme based out of Scaled Agile Framework, our conversations unknowingly got into the Agile way of thinking.

When I asked her what’s her take on Karma.
She explained me in following manner.
“Prasanna! Often we don’t understand why we go certain events in life. Often we don’t understand how we meet certain people, why certain people leave, why certain people are our family, our mentors, our close friends. All these sequence of events, people in life don’t happen just like that without any reason. They all are related to the Karma of our Soul. We feel more matured and calm when we see the journey of soul in different lives holistically. No soul can escape from the product backlog items of karma. So, it happens that in each life, called Sprint of life, the soul picks up certain user stories and the people we meet in that life are the resources assigned by God, for you to complete that sprint. So, the parents, siblings, mentors, friends, partners are all chosen to the soul by God before coming itself. And the repurcurssion of the acts of this life will be carried forward, so at any point we need to perform well keeping the processes, values in tact. The result of this sprint of life will continue to impact the overall programme of journey of soul . So, sometimes it happens that we may feel we are punished or disciplined for no reason by God. But it ain’t correct, everything happens for a reason “.

After listening to words and analogy of Anjali, I was just stuck in the magic of thoughts like an Alice in Wonderland.

Do share your thoughts.
Have a great week ahead 🙂
Loads of Love,
Prasanna Rayaprolu

Posted in Complex Human Mind, Inspirational Stuff, Life's Like That, Personal Development, Some stuff for Inspiration, Things to Ponder

Some Random Thoughts on QUALITY LIFE

Some Random thoughts on Quality Life :
Way 1: Is it Power, Positions, Packages and constant upgradition..with high ambitions and High risk appetite ?
Way 2: Is it People, hobbies, close time with nature, art, reading, writing, music,farming and gardening, peace?
Should we wait till retirement to choose things in way 2?
Should we never aspire the Way 1 if we are inclined to Way 2.
Should the way 1 people never dream of Way 2.
May be we can blend way 1 and way 2 right this moment itself.
There are people who do so… And they generally belong to Alpha men and Alpha women category…
How do they do it.. May be they have lots of passion for life and huge respect towards their self.
They make effort and ensure they have a Quality life.

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So, next time you are trying to add something to the product backlog for the later sprints of your life called ” After retirement “, do think if you can add to the current sprint called ” Present moment of life “.

Loads of Love,
Prasanna Rayaprolu